Monday, June 1, 2009

Update

Yes, I know, I am a horrible blogger. I only post every now and again and even then, I am pretty sure my posts are boring. Forgive me...for I am but a mere mortal.....ok....enough groveling! LOL!

So, things have been going well in my new (old) relationship. We have really hit it off and we are quickly approaching that point in the relationship where you must make a decision. Do you continue and commit to this person in a more permanent nature or do you break it off.

Let's face it...we are pretty straight forward creatures. Men are easy. Make us happy and we stick around but most times woman want so much and why so quickly? It seems inevitable that they always want to be "more" and need some sort of sign that this relationship is "going somewhere". Why can't they just be happy that we are with them and that we are getting along? Why is it woman seem to have titles and definition for a relationship to be successful?

As I stand on this precipice, I have to ask myself, especially after a divorce not so long ago....am I ready for this again? Do I truly want to be with this person long term or am I just afraid of being alone? Do I really feel as strongly for her and she declares she does for me? How do I know I want to do this all over again?

I hate the part we all come to where everyone is happy but someone has to bugger it up by deciding whether or not this happiness is going to last long term or not. I am more a Carpe Diem sort of person, so this long term crap is, in my opinion...for the birds!

Oh well...guess I had better get to thinking about which way this will go.

Stay tuned!