Monday, February 2, 2009

Where has all the happiness gone?

Have you ever noticed that sometime around the end of January people just start getting grumpy? It seems that as the winter rolls on, even in the South, people just start to get tired of eachother and of the general way of things and start arguing, snapping at and griping at eachother. It would appear that we need Spring to arrive soon, because people just aren't happy in the Winter. Oh sure...up North...there is always that magical time with the first snowfall, but I here that about now, people are just sick and tired of it. I guess that is one advantage to mid-western Florida...no snow. 

However, even here we have had a lot of cold days (ok...compared to where my buddy Ergo lives it isn't cold but for here it was downright frigid!) We have actually gotten frost on the cars lately and I am just not liking it one bit. If for no other reason than one of my kids HATES when he has to change his clothes for the cold weather ones. He hates wearing sleeves and despite trying to find sweatshirts without cuffs, he still has a total meltdown at the mere suggestion of long sleeve shirts...let alone a coat. Not all autistic kids have this issue but mine sure does. He does not like changes to anything in his day to day routine. Now...after many weeks of cold temps...he is adjusting but still having fits, but atleast I do not have to hog tie him to get his warmer clothes on now. Of course, the downside to this advancement is that once he settles into it....it will be hot again and I will then have to change him back to short sleeves...and we will have this drama all over again. It is a vicious cycle my friends...yes sir...good times. (Insert sarcasm here!)

Beyond that, I have found that there is one happy thing about the cold...hot chocolate! It is being served a lot more around here and for that...I am Kind Dad Supreme-O! LOL!

3 comments:

Cap'n Ergo "XL+II" Jinglebollocks said...

ooooh yes. First off, up here where it DOES snow, sometime in EARLY January we all start becoming like bears in a cave, breathing bear-breath and gettin' cabin fever. I think that's why Groundhog's Day is such a Big Deal-- it's a reminder that Winter WILL end, even if it's 6 very long weeks from now (and, lets face it; here winter ALWAYS lasts 6 more weeks!! I've seen blizzards on St. Pats day that stops parades in their trax!!)

I remember the cold day fights-- of putting on sweatshirts and coats in the froze of the morning when frost perched on the town; only to arrive at school to find 1/2 nekkid kids who had somehow managed to pull their long-sleeves off in their carseats.

Hang in there, honey!! I hear General Lee is predictin' for y'all to not have to put up w/this crap fo' much longah!!

Spooky Magoo said...

I think some grumpy attitudes have more to do with finances than weather. January is when the Christmas bills roll in and we have to start thinking about tax preporation.

Whatever the reason, cocoa makes it all better.

Dadof3PT said...

Cap'n: Ugh...cold day fights are definitely the norm here and at his moms. It is already in the 80's again though so it should be ok now!

Spooky: Thanks for stopping by! I agree..especially after I got that Visa bill!